coffee with counselling

hi, i'm Monica Lipka

and I help people who look fine on the outside stop quietly falling apart on the inside.

SEE IF THERAPY IS A FIT

i believe in having fun while remaining serious about your results

My story really began the moment I finally said enough is enough.

Six years ago, I found myself burnt out, constantly angry, and overly anxious in my 9-5 job. I wasn't satisfied with my work, leisure, or love life. I knew I desired love and connection, happiness in my workplace, and motivation for my hobbies. However, I felt stuck. overwhelmed by my overthinking brain. 


Determined to make a change... 

I took it upon myself to acquire the tools and skills to navigate life with less anxiety. I'm thrilled to say that I succeeded, and now I've not only transformed my own life but have also assisted hundreds of others in authentically communicating with loved ones, courageously expressing themselves, and pursuing a life they truly love.

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Having navigated through my own struggles with anxiety and burnout over the years, I understand the significance of creating an atmosphere that fosters appreciation, openness, playfulness, freedom, and love. With a primary objective of alleviating unnecessary suffering, my aim is for you to feel secure, understood, and eager for the coming days following our sessions.

With over a decade of experience in both the mental health and physio fields, I recognize the pivotal role of connecting the body, mind, and soul. During our sessions, you can expect a blend of mindfulness and breathwork, coupled with a generous dose of laughter. I place significant emphasis on the power of language, diligently observing and addressing words and phrases that may influence your life. Moreover, I advocate for the implementation of small, 2mm actions, fostering positive behavioral shifts that propel you toward a life of empowerment and fulfillment.

- confucius

“The man who asks a question is a fool for a minute, the man who does not is a fool for life.”

words to live by

ACT for ADHD (2026)

Anxiety Certification Course: Integrate CBT and Exposure & Response Prevention for Treatment of GAD, Panic Disorder, OCD, Social Anxiety & Phobias (2025)

1% better every day

brainspotting phase 1 (2024)

certified sex therapy informed professional (CSTIP) (in progress)

applied suicide intervention skills training (ASIST) (2012)

self expression and leadership (2021)

communication: access to power (2022)

introduction leadership program (2021-2022)

acceptance and commitment therapy intensive training (2022)

working with the lgbtq+ community in a clinical setting (2022)

emotion focused therapy: attachment science in practice intensive training (2022)

somatic psychotherapy skills to bring the body into trauma (2023)

act for perfectionism & people pleasing (2023)

Adult Adhd: strengthen executive skills & daily functioning (2024)

ACT for Grief and loss (2024)

training:

You asked for someone who won't just nod along. I'll reflect back what I'm noticing, push back when something isn't adding up, and help you see the patterns you're too close to see yourself.

Call you out - kindly, but honestly

The things you haven't told your partner, your friends, or your family. This is the one place where nothing you say will change how I show up for you.

You can say the ugly stuff here

There's a difference between a therapist who listens and one who gets it. I want you to leave sessions feeling like someone actually saw you - not like you were fit into a diagnosis or a treatment plan.

Help you feel understood

You'll leave with tools you'll actually use - not homework that collects dust. Stuff that works the same week.

Help build your skills

my promise to you. i will

my promise to you. i will

always up for trying new things

glimpse into my life

Colored walls, always. White walls have no personality.

The hardest part of a cold plunge is not telling everyone you did one.

THE BEST SCENTS ARE SUNSCREEN AND BONFIRES.

A wizard is never late, nor is he early, he arrives precisely when he means to..

QUICK FACTS

Bread is the superior carb. Non negotiable.

your at-a-glance on where i stand on the truly important things

I'm ALL ABOUT

all about

Questions and curiosity,
small actions,
using your body+mind
helping you find
your superpower

I'M NOT ABOUT

Comparison,
bandaid fixes,
what ifs,
the word "try",
fixating on the past

not about
LET'S DO IT

 Here are some additional advantages worth considering!

Insightful Pattern Recognition: Proficient in identifying patterns within your thoughts and behaviors, I offer valuable assistance in overcoming obstacles and progressing towards the relationships and life you aspire to.

Approachable Nature: Repeatedly acknowledged for my warm, down-to-earth, and non-judgmental approach, I make it exceptionally easy for individuals to share their thoughts. Rest assured that you can confide in me about anything, and together, we'll explore effective ways to address it.

Positive Mindset: While I am deeply committed to achieving positive outcomes for you, I also emphasize the importance of enjoying the therapeutic journey. Recognizing and celebrating every step, whether large or small, is a fundamental belief of mine. Each step brings you closer to your goals and farther from where you began.

Let's Build Something Incredible Together

benefits of working with monica

like my vibe?

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LET'S DREAM UP YOUR NEXT STEPS

LET'S DO IT